Linda Ikeji,
as part of marking her 36th birthday today decided to have a video
where she talked to friends, fans and foes.
Quite touching especially where she talked about all the failed projects
in her life before she got her breakthrough, you would be inspired.
The wealthy
Czar of Linda Ikeji Media confessed having an amazing life but there is a need
she has not been able to meet— a life partner. She highlighted why and these
are the lessons every single lady must know:
1.Pay more attention to your personal
life: It’s good to have a successful career and be
the lady boss; but it’s also good to mind one’s personal life. Having all-round
success in business also means having a peaceful, restful and amazing personal
life. By personal life here, I mean that aspect of your life that accommodates
intimacy. Linda Ikeji, Africa’s queen of blogs, confessed in her birthday video
message that: “I was so determined to succeed that I didn’t pay much attention
to my personal life but my attention was on my work life, my career. In the
last five years I have been praying to God about my career and not on relationship.
I was talking to God about my career. Until recently, I realize this is a
critical moment and I started praying for an incredible guy. I am 36 now and
more than ever, I am ready. I can’t wait to be a wife, mum and I can’t wait for
that to happen. I love kids so much.”
2. See yourself as a woman: It amuses me
when ladies rubbish men and shove them aside that ‘I don’t need men. I can do
without men” Who says? Every lady, who is not a nun or an avowed lesbian,
definitely needs a man! For sex only? No! For companionship, to share ideas,
give helping hands and make you know that you are the softer and weaker vessel.
Linda said, “On my 36th birthday, I pray that I find an amazing guy,
finally have regular sex, have a bunch of kids and continue to impact my world.”
3. Go Out and Hang Out With Friends: That you have a nice job does not mean you
cannot have a nice time out with friends or even colleagues. Don’t be too
hooked on to your career and shun social life. Again, Linda revealed: “Just that
I don’t go out much and I don’t get to meet people. Until two weeks ago, in the
last 6 years, since 2010, I work from home. On weekends, I go to very specific
places with very specific people. So, I don’t hang out where I can find guys.”
4. Don’t Hide Your Status: “Don’t wear
engagement ring when you are a bloody spinster looking for a guy! Who do you
want to deceive? On the other hand, there is nothing wrong making people around
you know that you are single. Don’t be afraid of being match-made with someone
nice and ‘cool.’ Linda Ikeji confessed unashamedly in the interview that, “Now,
I have told all my friends to start introducing me to single guys so that I can
have some options. Hopefully very soon, I am going to find someone. I am going to
come out more and hang out more.
5. Be Ready:
That simply means physical, mental and spiritual readiness. If you have not sorted
yourself out with certain psychological issues, don’t bother dating a guy. Why?
It will crash especially if you were on a rebound. Physically, take care of
yourself, ignore clothes that make you look like one old hag and start dressing
like a Bae! Who says there are no curvy clothes for you even if you are not a
teenager? Please get the right clothes, embrace slight make-up and please don’t
ignore social media space—even the oldest person on earth still seeks
attention. No harm seeking attention on your social media space but don’t be a
nuisance. Linda said, “I am very ready now. I have built my dream business and
I have an amazing life.”
Guys what are you waiting for?
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